Commandment #1: Stay in the Here and Now When dating it is very important to concentrate on the experience of being with the person.
Doesn’t matter whether you’re calling her a complete bunny boiler or singing her praises — it’s weird.
Just listen to your date, share your thoughts, and enjoy the moment.
After the date you can spend as much time analyzing it as you would like.
The dilemma is how can you tell if you are being wise and prudent or picky and selfish?
We therefore thought it might be helpful to suggest commandments for dating, and this chapter is our attempt to distill some of the concepts we have developed about relationships into useful guidelines.
Commandment #4: Thou shalt not get completely wasted. ) be imbibed on a date, but watch the intake and avoid shots, unless you are in college and there’s a special on tequila and cans of Tecate.