Hopefully, as Christian parents, we are training our children in the value of living our lives with a Biblical worldview.This includes prioritizing the Great Commandment of radical love for the Lord above all else (Matthew –39), obedience to Him that leads to fruitfulness (John ), living a Sermon on the Mount lifestyle (Matthew 5:1–) and a biblical view of relationships.Nothing in my life and faith has been more confusing and spiritually hazardous than my pursuit of marriage. Maybe you’ve wanted the relationship or liked the guy or girl, and you’ve never had the chance.From far too young, I longed for the affection, safety, and intimacy I anticipated with a wife. I experimented too much with our hearts and allowed things to go too far. And now my singleness is a regular reminder that I messed up, missed opportunities, or did it wrong. Maybe all the suggestions and advice you’ve collected has become a confusing mess of good-intentioned contradictions and ambiguity.
If fullness of life could be found in sexual stimulation, or if it was just a matter of making babies, the “forget formality and just have sex” approach might temporarily satisfy cravings and cause enough conception.Also, they are not written in stone and should be adjusted based on the individual situation.Please note that the questions target Christian men and women.I have composed two lists of questions below (one for men and one for women), based on some of the conversations I have had with both dating couples and single people.They are not listed in any specific order of importance, because I believe they are all important questions to consider.
Whatever the reason for your dating and relationship dissatisfaction, there are probably four underlying beliefs that are driving your emotions, behaviors, and disconnections. No matter how hard I try, nothing seems to change.3.