Jennifer's, Samantha's and John's concerns are common, because according to the U. Census Bureau, 19.3 million Americans get divorced each year, and many of them date and eventually remarry.
Perhaps you share their concerns, as you're also wondering how you can reenter the dating world after divorce — and do so according to God's standards. Divorce is the death of the dreams you had when you committed yourself "for better or for worse." As a Christian, you can't simply separate from your spouse one day and hit the dating field the next.
Robert Murray Davis, author of “Mid-Life Mojo: A Guide for the Newly Single Male." Many men feel desperate after divorce and jump into relationships too quickly.
However, how will you know when you are ready for a new relationship?These patterns include feelings of vulnerability, getting back into the game fast, looking for a serious relationship immediately and, increasingly, dating online.Divorce makes men feel vulnerable, not only because they are now left to grieve the end of a significant relationship, but because they see themselves differently.After divorce, dating can feel like a foreign world for both men and women.But men do have particular styles of dating post-divorce, patterns that have been tried and are trusted.
Men often feel that they will never again be as attractive as they are now, and decide to jump back in to the dating pool while they think they still have a chance.