A woman has just realized that her boyfriend has been active on online dating sites.
She is wondering if this is alright, and if she should address him.
My old boyfriend and I have resumed our exclusive relationship.
Years ago he told me he always looked online on dating sites, ”just to look.” I noticed that he still has an old profile on a dating site and has logged in within the past three days. Signed: Concerned Girlfriend This is a very interesting question, and it really depends on how you feel about your boyfriend.
I’m not interested in dating anyone besides you right now and I’m ready to shut down my online dating profile to get to know you better. ” In this short conversation, you simply state how you feel about him (without any false promises of the future), and you also let him know what you want from him.
Now it’s his turn turn to let you know what he wants. If he says he’s not ready to shut down his profile, will you walk away?
But you do need to be sure you’re on the same page in order for you to feel valued.
From your question, I can tell that you two were together in the past.
There was a period during which you two broke up, and now you are back together.
We will try to help you navigate this new world so you can get your sexual needs met without shame and emotional pain.
Go into new relationships with honesty and integrity so you don’t hurt yourself and others.
It seems that you may have even gone for years without dating each other.